This is not intuitive. Routinely sent me me people outside my age range, geographic boundaries, smoking preferences and racial preferences. If I said “maybe” to someone, they sent a message to that person saying I liked them or wanted to meet them which was ENTIRELY UNTRUE!! Anyone I sent a real message to, never messaged me back. Those who sent me messages were over 100 miles away. Overall, really sad site and not at all worth what you are charging! Just – don’t.